Psycho-therapy often is a ten-year commitment, surgery needs
a couple of months recovery, aspirin takes an hour or so to kick in, but today I
witnessed a cure that took about 10 minutes total. My Tuesday visit to
Mom began with her yelling at passing nurses and throwing food at someone. She
scowled at me when I started playing the ukelele and generally was in her “I’m
not too pleased to be alive at this moment and nothing you are doing or saying
is helping” state.
I wheeled her over to the piano and started playing some
Scarlatti sonatas and by the end of the first one, she was transformed.
Smiling, calm, animated, happy, her body chemistry changed from vibrations from
strings inside a wooden frame artfully arranged to bring pleasure to those who
understand the language. Not those trained or formally educated, but those,
like my Mom, who have eavesdropped on enough conversations in this style to
recognize the points of tension and release, understand the ebb and flow of the
musical soundwaves so that they can ride them like surfers in the zone. I’ve
always known that music is a powerful healing force and therapeutic tool, but
it is simply extraordinary to see how thoroughly and quickly it can transform
one’s mood, immediately re-balance brain waves and heart rhythms out of whack
and bring them into harmony. No accident that harmony was both Scarlatti’s
structural scaffolding and the word that describes a balanced emotional state.
And of course, so pleasing that this is no experiment in a
lab, but a real life situation and means of connection between a son and his
aging mother. This is my payback for the early years of breast-feeding. She fed
me and soothed me with her milk and now I feed and soothe her with the musical
milk flowing from my fingers. And not only am I thrilled that the “therapeutic
subject” is my flesh-and-blood mother, but I know that she is thrilled that the
musical doctor is her son. My wife suggested that maybe I gift her with an
i-Pod filled with Scarlatti so she can listen at will, but besides the
differences between the sound waves coming from the three-dimensional piano,
the ambiance of the room and the community of others listening, I think it
means something special to her that her offspring is producing the sounds.
Today she called me a champ and raised my arm in the air like I had just won
the heavyweight boxing titled when I knocked down the last note of Sonata No.
18.
For the moment, Scarlatti and Haydn seem to be her
favorites. She loves the constant motion of the 16th notes, the
forward momentum reaching little peaks of climax before gathering all their
energy to head for the final chord. The tempos range from Allegro to Presto,
vibrant, alive with energy, charging the air and our nervous system with an
ordered exuberance. It’s a very different feeling than playing the old jazz
standards I usually play when I visit. No one is humming along or remembering a bygone
era captured in an old familiar song. Instead, they are dancing to the pure
energy of musical tones.
As for Domenico Scarlatti, he was a contemporary of Bach and
Handel (all three born in 1685) who lived in Italy, moved to Portugal and then
spent much of his later life in Spain. His energetic keyboard works often revolve around repetitive
figures that hover briefly like a hummingbird sipping nectar before flitting to
the next flower. He shows a masterful command of quickly shifting harmonies and
was an expert in the short Sonata form. In fact, he wrote 555 of them. (My book
has 30).
That’s good news for my Mom and her neighbors. 555 roads to
healing. I better get practicing.
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