This time last week, I was “cruisin’ and playing the radio, with no particular place to go.” Well, I was heading to Memphis on Rt. 55 north in Mississippi, but with that delicious American road trip feeling of freedom, listening to Chuck Berry’s song in the place where the blues began. From the Mississippi Delta, it later erupted into Rhythm and Blues in Memphis and changed the American landscape forever.
All of the power to liberate the body, open the heart and bring some soul into the white-bread buttoned-down America of the 50’s was present in those Delta origins. But a country still in the grip of its White Supremacy narrative needed Elvis to show us how to gyrate our hips and Jerry Lee Lewis to give us permission to get a “whole lot of shakin’ goin’ on.”
But because “follow the money” was (and is) one of the three driving unspoken and spoken principles of our country (alongside White Supremacy and Patriarchy), black artists like Chuck Berry and Little Richard were also given airtime once it became clear that both black and white fans would buy their records. Besides the dynamic, flamboyant and sexually suggestive performance styles, all four had something else in common: relationships with underage girls.
Elvis was 24 when he met 14-year-old Priscilla Presley and according to some, began “grooming her” for their marriage years later. Jerry Lee Lewis was 22 when he married his 13-year-old cousin. Chuck Berry, at 36-years-old, was arrested for taking a 14-year-old across state lines for “immoral purposes.” Little Richard, at 34-years-old, began a relationship with a 16-year-old girl (though later he came out as gay). So began the 50’s version of the Epstein Files.
And on it goes. Whether underage or not, the abuse of women by men in power has gone on unchecked. Heck, we’ve elected a President implicated in this behavior and are keeping him in power and unaccountable. Not to mention Supreme Court Justices and members of Congress. One is no longer surprised by the reprehensible behavior of members of the Repugnitan Party, but now we’re finding about people who actually did good work on the side of justice, spirituality and humanitarian healing. Bill Cosby was a shocking revelation, now Cesar Chavez and some dubious associations of Deepak Chopkra with the Epstein gang. Not to mention abuses from Indian gurus and Zen masters. Who’s next? The Dalai Lama? Mr. Rogers?
Nature thought it had a good idea to make sex pleasurable to insure the survival and continuation of the species. But when combined with White Supremacy and the Patriarchy, it seems to go off the rails and the men who rise to positions of power seem utterly incapable of simply doing the right thing. And like all the good-old-boys-clubs, have figured out how to stick together to make themselves unaccountable and watch each other’s backs.
Two words to the fellow men in my gender: STOP IT!
And to all of us. HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE! RELEASE THE EPSTEIN FILES AND ACT! NOW!
And next time you’re shakin’, rattlin’ and rollin’ at the dance, stay away from the 13-year-olds.