My daughter Talia’s boyfriend Matt grew up in Marin County and lived much of his adult life in Oakland. Now they are living together in San Francisco and in the spirit of helping him get acquainted with his new home, I offered to give him my legendary “Doug tour” of this fair city. And today’s the day.
We’ll meet at the Ferry Building, walk up the Filbert Street steps to Coit Tower, stop in at the city’s smallest park, have lunch at Mario’s Cigar Box Café and a coffee at Café Trieste, browse at City Lights Bookstore, walk down Chinatown’s Grant Street, ascend the hill to the Fairmount Hotel and show him the secret (“Sshhh! Don’t tell!) way to the Crown Room and its stunning view, walk the labyrinth at Grace Cathedral. Along the way we’ll learn a bit about Philo T. Farnsworth, Jack Early, Marilyn and Joe, the beat poets and George Cory and Douglas Cross, amongst others.
I’ve done this tour probably a hundred with a hundred different people and I never get tired of it. Some things, of course, have changed— the Columbus statue outside Coit Tour is gone (good riddance!), the postcard store on Grant St. in North Beach long gone (too bad!), the Clarion Music Store open for concerts but not selling instruments anymore from around the world (I miss it!), but a lot is still alive and well and vibrant.
Years back, I wrote a poem about being a tourist in your own town and indeed, I find it fun and refreshing. And so here it is:
A TOURIST IN YOUR TOWN
© 2008 Doug Goodkin
When things are low and getting stale
You’re feeling rather down.
Walk out the door, hoist up your sail,
Be a tourist in your town!
Break out those splashy shirts,
Throw the camera ‘round your neck.
Go rent a car from Hertz
A Jaguar? What the heck!
The place you pass most every day,
Now looks like someplace new.
The cup you drink at your café
Tastes better and more true.
The things you’ve seen so oft before
Come laden with surprise.
As if you’ve opened a new door,
You see with tourists’ eyes.
The camera’s eye now frames,
What was too close to see.
Those shuttered windowpanes,
On the shop that serves herb tea.
The skateboarders careening,
Down Lombard’s curvy street.
All takes on a new meaning
When you walk with tourist feet.
The sounds of children playing,
The thunderous ocean roar.
Why, you might consider staying,
Perhaps a few days more?
So when your spirit’s flagging,
No remedies can be found.
Take my advice, put on new eyes,
Be a tourist in your town.